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AbrasionDictionary term meaning a wearing, grinding, or rubbing away by friction. In BDSM play this would See also stimulating the surface of the body with abrasive materials such as rough silk, leather, sandpaper, brushes, etc – (See also: CuttingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice., Knife PlayMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. ) Dictionary term meaning a wearing, grinding, or rubbing away by friction. In BDSM play this would See also stimulating the surface of the body with abrasive materials such as rough silk, leather, sandpaper, brushes, etc.
Age PlayActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are. – Acting as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are.
Anal BeadsA set of strung beads used to insert into the anus to stimulate the anal nerves as foreplay or to cause orgasm. – A set of strung beads used to insert into the anus to stimulate the anal nerves as foreplay or to cause orgasm.
Anal PlayThis is generally play where the anus may be penetrated with either beads, ice, dildos, anal plugsA specially designed dildoA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass., penis, or fist. RimmingAny sexual activity involving the anus. Examples are; rimming (oral), Butt / Anal Plugs, Dildos, and penile penetration. the anus with a finger or toys stimulates the nerves which can create a more intense orgasm. Inserting and playing with one’s prostrate gland (males) will cause increased orgasm. – This is generally play where the anus may be penetrated with either beads, ice, dildos, anal plugsA specially designed dildoA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass., penis, or fist. RimmingAny sexual activity involving the anus. Examples are; rimming (oral), Butt / Anal Plugs, Dildos, and penile penetration. the anus with a finger or toys stimulates the nerves which can create a more intense orgasm. Inserting and playing with one’s prostrate gland (males) will cause increased orgasm.
Anal PlugA specially designed dildoA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. – (See also: DildoA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass., VibratorA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. ) A specially designed dildoA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass.
Anal SexAny sexual activity involving the anus. Examples are; rimmingAny sexual activity involving the anus. Examples are; rimming (oral), Butt / Anal Plugs, Dildos, and penile penetration. (oral), Butt / Anal Plugs, Dildos, and penile penetration. – (See also: RimmingAny sexual activity involving the anus. Examples are; rimming (oral), Butt / Anal Plugs, Dildos, and penile penetration. ) Any sexual activity involving the anus. Examples are; rimmingAny sexual activity involving the anus. Examples are; rimming (oral), Butt / Anal Plugs, Dildos, and penile penetration. (oral), Butt / Anal PlugsA specially designed dildoA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass., Dildos, and penile penetration.
Animal Role PlayingGames in which one or more partners, usually the bottom, takes on the role of an animal. Most common is probably a dog, or puppy boy / girl though horses/ponies are also popular i.e. puppy – pony play. The ‘animal’ may imitate animal behavior (and may go as deep as creating oneself as that animal in their mind), wear items such as collars, leads, bridles and so on, or carry out tasks associated with animal behavior. – Games in which one or more partners, usually the bottom, takes on the role of an animal. Most common is probably a dog, or puppy boy / girl though horses/ponies are also popular i.e. puppy – pony play. The ‘animal’ may imitate animal behavior (and may go as deep as creating oneself as that animal in their mind), wear items such as collars, leads, bridles and so on, or carry out tasks associated with animal behavior.
Arm / Leg SleevesPlay which involves binding the arms/legs of the submissive in an attempt to restrict mobility. (often called arm bindersPlay which involves binding the arms/legs of the submissive in an attempt to restrict mobility.) – Play which involves binding the arms/legs of the submissive in an attempt to restrict mobility.
AromasPlay which involves the use of certain aroma therapy to induce relaxation. Also referred to as “poppers”. In some instances these can be volatile compounds whose vapors cause temporarily increased heart and breathing rates, muscle relaxation, and a “rushing” feeling in the head. These types of play are popular in the gay and rave scenes, and often used in an S/m context. There are some dangers associated with their use. – (See also: Hot OilsPlay which involves the use of certain aroma therapy to induce relaxation. Also referred to as “poppers”. In some instances these can be volatile compounds whose vapors cause temporarily increased heart and breathing rates, muscle relaxation, and a “rushing” feeling in the head. These types of play are popular in the gay and rave scenes, and often used in an S/m context. There are some dangers associated with their use. ) Play which involves the use of certain aroma therapy to induce relaxation. Also referred to as “poppers”. In some instances these can be volatile compounds whose vapors cause temporarily increased heart and breathing rates, muscle relaxation, and a “rushing” feeling in the head. These types of play are popular in the gay and rave scenes, and often used in an S/m context. There are some dangers associated with their use.
AsphyxiationCommonly referred to as “breath controlCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result.”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result. – (See also Breath ControlCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result. , ChokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result. ) Commonly referred to as “breath controlCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result.”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result.
Auctions, often for Charityusually involves a person, DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. or submissive, willing to be part of a scene / play is ‘sold’ to the highest bidder as a charitable fund raiser. Even though the ‘sale’ is voluntary and the high bidder does not ‘own’ the person, his activity may be illegal in some locals / countries – (See also: Competitionsusually involves a person, DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. or submissive, willing to be part of a scene / play is ‘sold’ to the highest bidder as a charitable fund raiser. Even though the ‘sale’ is voluntary and the high bidder does not ‘own’ the person, his activity may be illegal in some locals / countries) usually involves a person, DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. or submissive, willing to be part of a scene / play is ‘sold’ to the highest bidder as a charitable fund raiser. Even though the ‘sale’ is voluntary and the high bidder does not ‘own’ the person, his activity may be illegal in some locals / countries..
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Ball StretchingPlay which involves any type of scrotal constraint / attachment involving weights or other means of pulling on the testicles and scrotum in order to provide a variety of sensations including discomfort and pain. – Play which involves any type of scrotal constraint / attachment involving weights or other means of pulling on the testicles and scrotum in order to provide a variety of sensations including discomfort and pain.
BastinadoInvolves using an object to strike (beat) the bottom of the feet. This not only can be dangerous (cause permanent damage), but is (can be) very painful. – Involves using an object to strike (beat) the bottom of the feet. This not only can be dangerous (cause permanent damage), but is (can be) very painful.
Bathroom Use ControlScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterizationScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. – (See also: CatheterizationScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. , EnemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. ) Scenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterizationScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play.
BestialityPlay which incorporates the use of animals for sexual pleasure. Not to be confused with animal role playing. This form of play can be very dangerous. – Play which incorporates the use of animals for sexual pleasure. Not to be confused with animal role playingGames in which one or more partners, usually the bottom, takes on the role of an animal. Most common is probably a dog, or puppy boy / girl though horses/ponies are also popular i.e. puppy – pony play. The ‘animal’ may imitate animal behavior (and may go as deep as creating oneself as that animal in their mind), wear items such as collars, leads, bridles and so on, or carry out tasks associated with animal behavior.. This form of play can be very dangerous.
BeatingStriking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. – (See also: SpankingStriking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive., CaningOften people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caning produces the most pain. Care should be used since welts from caning are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. Caning should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. Caning if done wrong can be dangerous causing permanent damage, and is not for the novice.Striking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. ) Striking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beatingStriking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive.” to an unruly submissive.
Being ServicedPlay which involves just that. The DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. instructing the submissive to do exactly how He / She wants the submissive to perform sexually. (sexually) – Play which involves just that. The DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. instructing the submissive to do exactly how He / She wants the submissive to perform sexually.
BitingScenes involving the biting of the skin to induce pain. Safety Note: Although certain types of nibbling/biting are quite safe, extreme biting causing breaking/bleeding of the skin is not recommended and can be dangerous if not carefully done. – Scenes involving the bitingScenes involving the biting of the skin to induce pain. Safety Note: Although certain types of nibbling/biting are quite safe, extreme biting causing breaking/bleeding of the skin is not recommended and can be dangerous if not carefully done. of the skin to induce pain. Safety Note: Although certain types of nibbling/bitingScenes involving the biting of the skin to induce pain. Safety Note: Although certain types of nibbling/biting are quite safe, extreme biting causing breaking/bleeding of the skin is not recommended and can be dangerous if not carefully done. are quite safe, extreme bitingScenes involving the biting of the skin to induce pain. Safety Note: Although certain types of nibbling/biting are quite safe, extreme biting causing breaking/bleeding of the skin is not recommended and can be dangerous if not carefully done. causing breaking/bleeding of the skin is not recommended and can be dangerous if not carefully done.
BlindfoldsPlay which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. Blindfolds come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Note: Do not make the blindfold too tight as to put pressure on the eyeballs. Although some people take blindfoldingPlay which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. Blindfolds come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Note: Do not make the blindfold too tight as to put pressure on the eyeballs. Although some people take blindfolding in stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people. in stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people. – (See also: Full-Head HoodsPlay which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. Blindfolds come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Note: Do not make the blindfold too tight as to put pressure on the eyeballs. Although some people take blindfoldingPlay which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. Blindfolds come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Note: Do not make the blindfold too tight as to put pressure on the eyeballs. Although some people take blindfolding in stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people. in stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people. ) Play which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. BlindfoldsPlay which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. Blindfolds come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Note: Do not make the blindfold too tight as to put pressure on the eyeballs. Although some people take blindfoldingPlay which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. Blindfolds come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Note: Do not make the blindfold too tight as to put pressure on the eyeballs. Although some people take blindfolding in stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people. in stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people. come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Note: Do not make the blindfold too tight as to put pressure on the eyeballs. Although some people take blindfoldingPlay which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. Blindfolds come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Note: Do not make the blindfold too tight as to put pressure on the eyeballs. Although some people take blindfolding in stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people. in stride, it can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people.
Breast / Chest BondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus.The restriction / bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. of the woman’s breast / chest area for erotic reasons using various types of fastenings (i.e., rope, scarves, etc.). – (See also: BondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. ) The restriction / bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. of the woman’s breast / chest area for erotic reasons using various types of fastenings (i.e., rope, scarves, etc.).
Breath ControlCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result. – (See also: AsphyxiationCommonly referred to as “breath controlCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result.”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., ChokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result. ) Refers to play involving control of or restriction of air and / or oxygen to the brain. Other examples would be strangling, which is compression of the neck/throat area to prevent the flow of oxygen to the brain. Suffocation involves reducing the level of oxygen available to breathe; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck (remember, all these games are dangerous to play, either alone or with a partner).
BrandingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. – (See also: CuttingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. , Knife PlayMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. , TattooMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. ) Making a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. BrandingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. is not for the novice.
Boot WorshipThe practice of play involving a fetish for boots / shoes. Commonly used for Domination and humiliation practices (i.e., licking or cleaning of the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions.’s boots, shoes or bare feet). – (See also: Foot Worship , Homage , High Heels) The practice of play involving a fetish for boots / shoes. Commonly used for Domination and humiliation practices (i.e., licking or cleaning of the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions.’s boots, shoes or bare feet).
BondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. – (See also: Breast / Chest BondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus.The restriction / bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. of the woman’s breast / chest area for erotic reasons using various types of fastenings (i.e., rope, scarves, etc.). , Immobilization , Intricate Japanese Rope BondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. , Manacles / Irons , Mummification , Shibari , Spreader Bar , Straight Jacket ) The restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffsA leather, pvc, neoprin or metal bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. device used to restrict movement. Usually locks around the limbs in order to place the submissive in a precarious position., chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus.
Breast WhippingWhipping of the woman’s / submissive’s chest area using a variety of items which include: floggers, whips, cat tails, paddles, for erotic purposes. – Whipping of the woman’s / submissive’s chest area using a variety of items which include: floggers, whips, cat tails, paddles, for erotic purposes.
Brown ShowersBrown Showers (ScatBrown Showers (Scat) – This fetish involves human (or animal) feces. Although this type of play is said to be ‘safe’ if done correctly, the degree of safety is debatable and is not recommended for those faint of heart!) – This fetish involves human (or animal) feces. Although this type of play is said to be ‘safe’ if done correctly, the degree of safety is debatable and is not recommended for those faint of heart! (ScatBrown Showers (Scat) – This fetish involves human (or animal) feces. Although this type of play is said to be ‘safe’ if done correctly, the degree of safety is debatable and is not recommended for those faint of heart!) – This fetish involves human (or animal) feces. Although this type of play is said to be ‘safe’ if done correctly, the degree of safety is debatable and is not recommended for those faint of heart!
BruisingA condition which may occur as a result of pinching or striking. Many take pride in and enjoy being bruised. Those who bruise easily, heal slowly, and/or with other medical conditions should avoid being bruised. – A condition which may occur as a result of pinching or striking. Many take pride in and enjoy being bruised. Those who bruise easily, heal slowly, and/or with other medical conditions should avoid being bruised.
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CagesMost common is the use of a large animal cage. Construction of a cage can be of wood, steel, fencing material. Used to confine the submissive, for play or punishment. – Most common is the use of a large animal cage. Construction of a cage can be of wood, steel, fencing material. Used to confine the submissive, for play or punishment.
CaningOften people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caning produces the most pain. Care should be used since welts from caning are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. Caning should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. Caning if done wrong can be dangerous causing permanent damage, and is not for the novice.Striking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. – (See also: BastinadoInvolves using an object to strike (beat) the bottom of the feet. This not only can be dangerous (cause permanent damage), but is (can be) very painful., BeatingStriking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. , Whipping ) CaningOften people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caning produces the most pain. Care should be used since welts from caning are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. Caning should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. Caning if done wrong can be dangerous causing permanent damage, and is not for the novice.Striking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. – Often people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caningOften people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caning produces the most pain. Care should be used since welts from caning are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. Caning should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. Caning if done wrong can be dangerous causing permanent damage, and is not for the novice.Striking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. produces the most pain. Care should be used since welts from caningOften people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caning produces the most pain. Care should be used since welts from caning are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. Caning should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. Caning if done wrong can be dangerous causing permanent damage, and is not for the novice.Striking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. CaningOften people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caning produces the most pain. Care should be used since welts from caning are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. Caning should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. Caning if done wrong can be dangerous causing permanent damage, and is not for the novice.Striking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. CaningOften people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caning produces the most pain. Care should be used since welts from caning are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. Caning should be limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. Caning if done wrong can be dangerous causing permanent damage, and is not for the novice.Striking the body with various objects or the hand. Typically administered as punishment in connection with childhood punishments. For example, the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. may administer a “beating” to an unruly submissive. if done wrong can be dangerous causing permanent damage, and is not for the novice.
Castration FantasyThere has been much confusion as to the actual meaning of this term. This refers to removal of the testicles; however, some people use it for the removal of any/all sexual organs of either sex. The removal of the testicles is sometimes referred to as Emasculation and a man who has had his testicles removed is referred to as a eunuch. This procedure causes permanent and significant changes to the body. Castration fantasies are actually quite common among the heavy S/m players and are played out in scenes involving cock and ball torture (CBT), permanent and play piercing, and even genital shaving. However, few people actually choose to make this fantasy a reality. It should be noted here that this is a serious surgical procedure and not something someone can teach themselves to do safely. This form of play is very dangerous. – (See also: CuttingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. , Knife PlayMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. ) There has been much confusion as to the actual meaning of this term. This refers to removal of the testicles; however, some people use it for the removal of any/all sexual organs of either sex. The removal of the testicles is sometimes referred to as Emasculation and a man who has had his testicles removed is referred to as a eunuch. This procedure causes permanent and significant changes to the body. Castration fantasies are actually quite common among the heavy S/m players and are played out in scenes involving cock and ball torture (CBT), permanent and play piercing, and even genital shaving. However, few people actually choose to make this fantasy a reality. It should be noted here that this is a serious surgical procedure and not something someone can teach themselves to do safely. This form of play is very dangerous.
CatheterizationScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. – (See also: Bathroom Use ControlScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterizationScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. , EnemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. , Urethral Play ) A flexible tube used in medical procedures generally inserted into the area controlled by the bladder. This procedure is most often used for “control” scenes.
Cattle ProdAn electrical prodding device used to herd animals, more frequently for cattle. Sometimes used in S/m play for “brandingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice.” or serious hardcore pain play, and is considered dangerous play. – An electrical prodding device used to herd animals, more frequently for cattle. Sometimes used in S/m play for “brandingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice.” or serious hardcore pain play, and is considered dangerous play.
Cells or Closets – Play which involves locking the submissive in a cell-type device and / or closet. Usually as a form of punishment. Not recommended for claustrophobics.
ChainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain. – A strong metal type of bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. material used in bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. scenes. ChainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain. are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain.
Chamber-Pot UseScenes involving the use of the toilet for humiliation and / or control. Generally used for medical scenes. – Scenes involving the use of the toilet for humiliation and / or control. Generally used for medical scenes.
Chastity BeltIn S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one (male or female) from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. A device (lockable) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation. – (See also: Enforced ChastityIn BDSM / S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. A means of domination over one's submissive. A device (lockable ) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation. ) In S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one (male or female) from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. A means of domination over one’s submissive. A device (lockable) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation.
ChauffeuringRequiring one's submissive to "chauffeur" them around physically in vehicles or other types of transportation. – Requiring one’s submissive to “chauffeur” them around physically in vehicles or other types of transportation.
ChokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result. – (See also: AsphyxiationCommonly referred to as “breath controlCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result.”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., Breath ControlCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, chokingCommonly referred to as “breath control”. Refers to play involving control or restriction of air to the lungs and / or blood (oxygen) to the brain. Asphyxia includes hands over nose and mouth, choking, smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result., smothering, air tight hoods [may include tube(s)], plastics bags, sheet latex, strangling which is compression of the wind pipe – trachea to reduce or stop the flow of air into the lungs, ‘sleeper hold’ which reduces / stops blood flow (oxygen) to the brain as well as discharge of carbon dioxide via the blood stream back to the lungs; hanging where the body is suspended by the neck These actions are often used to create more intense orgasm. Remember, these activities can be and are extremely dangerous. Comma, brain damage even death is often the end result. ) Compression of the carotid arteries in order to restrict air or blood flow to the brain. This form of play is dangerous.
ChoresScenes where the Dominant requires the submissive to perform chores and / or domestic service in either sexually pleasing clothing (i.e., maid outfits) or naked. (Domestic Service) – (See also: Housework) Scenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. requires the submissive to perform choresScenes where the Dominant requires the submissive to perform chores and / or domestic service in either sexually pleasing clothing (i.e., maid outfits) or naked. and / or domestic service in either sexually pleasing clothing (i.e., maid outfits) or naked.
ClothespinsSmall pinning devices used for hanging clothes. Generally used in BDSM play as quite effective nipple clamps, testicle clamps, etc. Great for the bargain BDSM player! Be sure the wood doesn't become stuck to the skin while removing, as it will remove skin from body. You may elect to dip/coat the edges of the tip in latex to prevent this. – (See also Nipple Clamps) Small pinning devices used for hanging clothes. Generally used in BDSM play as quite effective nipple clamps, testicle clamps, etc. Great for the bargain BDSM player! Be sure the wood doesn’t become stuck to the skin while removing, as it will remove skin from body. You may elect to dip/coat the edges of the tip in latex to prevent this.
Cock & Ball TortureAny form of restraint or orgasm control to a male's genitals. Can be used for play or punishment. Not for the novice, as this can be dangerous. – any form of restraint or orgasm control to a male’s genitals. Can be used for play or punishment. Not for the novice, as this can be dangerous.
Cock RingRubber, metal, or leather type ring used to strap around the base of the cock and balls when soft. Increases blood flow to the genital area during self stimulation and sex. When released, causes minor pain during recurring blood flow. – Rubber, metal, or leather type ring used to strap around the base of the cock and balls when soft. Increases blood flow to the genital area during self stimulation and sex. When released, causes minor pain during recurring blood flow.
Cock WorshipPlay which involves the fantasy of worshiping the cock. Performed mostly by the submissive to the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions.. Scenes might include licking and / or fellatio. Even some female Dominants may use strap-ons that are worshiped by the submissive male or female. – (See also: Homage , Licking ) Play which involves the fantasy of worshiping the cock. Performed mostly by the submissive to the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions.. Scenes might include licking and / or fellatio. Even some female Dominants may use strap-ons that are worshiped by the submissive male or female.
CollarA collar worn around the neck to indicate one's submissiveness. These can be made of leather, steel, rubber, rope. Used in scenes for humiliation and / or examples such as dog / puppy or even boy / girl play. – A collarA collar worn around the neck to indicate one's submissiveness. These can be made of leather, steel, rubber, rope. Used in scenes for humiliation and / or examples such as dog / puppy or even boy / girl play. worn around the neck to indicate one’s submissiveness. These can be made of leather, steel, rubber, rope. Used in scenes for humiliation and / or examples such as dog / puppy or even boy / girl play.
Competitionsusually involves a person, DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. or submissive, willing to be part of a scene / play is ‘sold’ to the highest bidder as a charitable fund raiser. Even though the ‘sale’ is voluntary and the high bidder does not ‘own’ the person, his activity may be illegal in some locals / countries (With Other Subs) – (See also: Auctioned for Charityusually involves a person, DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. or submissive, willing to be part of a scene / play is ‘sold’ to the highest bidder as a charitable fund raiser. Even though the ‘sale’ is voluntary and the high bidder does not ‘own’ the person, his activity may be illegal in some locals / countries ) Scenes involving competitive-type sports or play with other submissives.
CorsetsA lingerie / binding type device worn to restrict the chest area and make the waist smaller. Worn by early 19th Century women as a form of formal dress to make one's self more appealing to the opposite sex. – A lingerie / binding type device worn to restrict the chest area and make the waist smaller. Worn by early 19th Century women as a form of formal dress to make one’s self more appealing to the opposite sex.
Crotch TortureAny form of torture to the male or female genital area. – Any form of torture to the male or female genital area.
CuffsA leather, pvc, neoprin or metal bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. device used to restrict movement. Usually locks around the limbs in order to place the submissive in a precarious position. – A leather or metal bondageThe restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Also used in S/m practices though with a heavier pretense. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chainsA strong metal type of bondage material used in bondage scenes. Chains are less flexible and potentially more dangerous than other types of bondage material. Note: Always make sure you observe metal bondage rules and choose a chain and equipment that will withstand heavier strain., and other restraining apparatus. device used to restrict movement. Usually locks around the limbs in order to place the submissive in a precarious position.
CuttingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. – (See also: AbrasionDictionary term meaning a wearing, grinding, or rubbing away by friction. In BDSM play this would See also stimulating the surface of the body with abrasive materials such as rough silk, leather, sandpaper, brushes, etc , BrandingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. , Castration FantasyThere has been much confusion as to the actual meaning of this term. This refers to removal of the testicles; however, some people use it for the removal of any/all sexual organs of either sex. The removal of the testicles is sometimes referred to as Emasculation and a man who has had his testicles removed is referred to as a eunuch. This procedure causes permanent and significant changes to the body. Castration fantasies are actually quite common among the heavy S/m players and are played out in scenes involving cock and ball torture (CBT), permanent and play piercing, and even genital shaving. However, few people actually choose to make this fantasy a reality. It should be noted here that this is a serious surgical procedure and not something someone can teach themselves to do safely. This form of play is very dangerous. , Knife PlayMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. ) CuttingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice. the surface of the skin with sharp objects, generally a knife, for the thrill, sensation, or pain. To also create decorative scars. The same basic precautions apply as with other types of blood play. Remember to stay away from vital organ areas and genital cuttingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice.. See also AbrasionDictionary term meaning a wearing, grinding, or rubbing away by friction. In BDSM play this would See also stimulating the surface of the body with abrasive materials such as rough silk, leather, sandpaper, brushes, etc, BrandingMaking a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by a variety of methods from burning with a hot metal object (as practiced on livestock but with much less dependable results, not to mention it is intensely painful and can result in serious 3rd degree burns). Cauterizing pens can be used with more dependable results and less risk of serious injury – infection etc. Seen by some as “body art”. Can also use temporary tattoos or markers. Used by Dominants to mark their property. Branding is not for the novice., or Castration FantasyThere has been much confusion as to the actual meaning of this term. This refers to removal of the testicles; however, some people use it for the removal of any/all sexual organs of either sex. The removal of the testicles is sometimes referred to as Emasculation and a man who has had his testicles removed is referred to as a eunuch. This procedure causes permanent and significant changes to the body. Castration fantasies are actually quite common among the heavy S/m players and are played out in scenes involving cock and ball torture (CBT), permanent and play piercing, and even genital shaving. However, few people actually choose to make this fantasy a reality. It should be noted here that this is a serious surgical procedure and not something someone can teach themselves to do safely. This form of play is very dangerous..
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DiapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions. – Waterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions.
DilationThe term used when a woman's cervix is dilated (opened) to aid in childbirth. In BDSM play dilation occurs when a speculum (pelvic exam device) is used to open the cervix for medical scening. Safety Note: Care should be exercised and previous study should be done, before attempting this play. This form of play is dangerous. – The term used when a woman’s cervix is dilated (opened) to aid in childbirth. In BDSM play dilationThe term used when a woman's cervix is dilated (opened) to aid in childbirth. In BDSM play dilation occurs when a speculum (pelvic exam device) is used to open the cervix for medical scening. Safety Note: Care should be exercised and previous study should be done, before attempting this play. This form of play is dangerous. occurs when a speculum (pelvic exam device) is used to open the cervix for medical scening. Safety Note: Care should be exercised and previous study should be done, before attempting this play. This form of play is dangerous.
DildoA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. – (See also: Anal PlugA specially designed dildoA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass., VibratorA specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. Also used for “ass training” to stretch out the anus and get one accustomed to having something in their ass. ) From the French term meaning “I please myself). A phallic-shaped device designed for insertion into the body. Early versions were made of stuffed animal gut, leather, or ceramics; however, today they are most commonly crafted of molded latex. They may be hand-held, strapped on with harnesses to allow women to wear, or permanently placed on other devices to ensure stability during use. Hygiene demands that dildos not be shared with others, or condoms be placed on dildos to prevent the spread of STD’s.
DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. – The one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions.
Double PenetrationPlay involving the penetration of two or more bodily orifices with various types of devices and / or genitalia, (i.e., penetration of the mouth / rectum / vagina, etc.) – Play involving the penetration of two or more bodily orifices with various types of devices and / or genitalia, (i.e., penetration of the mouth / rectum / vagina, etc.)
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ElectricityUsing electricity in BDSM play seems a scary notion to most people, but it can be made safer by adhering to several rules:
Only use devices designed and intended for use on the human body, especially AVOID training shock collars, home made, improvised such as 'stereo stim', and modified devices.
Irrespective of what you see on web sites and/or hear from others, avoid placing contacts/electrodes above the waist especially on both hands, arms, breasts etc..
When using AC powered (utility - mains) devices be SURE the wiring (hot, neutral, and ground [if one]) is correct and the cord is in GOOD condition. Always avoid accidental grounding which could result in shock even electrocution.
Read the book, Juice written by Uncle Abdul. It discusses electrical play. There is also is a 9 page detailed booklet written by Lady Robin available at: LadyRobin-SaferE-Stim.html .
Watch for and attend e-stim / electric play demos - workshops whenever possible.
Popular devices include "TENS" units designed for the relief of muscle and back pain; muscle stimulation devices (EMS), several different e-stim power boxes, and "Violet Wands" (VW) use a radio frequency high voltage, very low current discharge. Many people use VWs above the waist as long as the eyes are avoided but because VWs are powered by household voltage, there always is a risk of malfunction, accidental grounding, etc.. All forms of e-stim - electrical play can be dangerous – (See also: TENS Unit, Violet Wand ) Using electricityUsing electricity in BDSM play seems a scary notion to most people, but it can be made safer by adhering to several rules:
Only use devices designed and intended for use on the human body, especially AVOID training shock collars, home made, improvised such as 'stereo stim', and modified devices.
Irrespective of what you see on web sites and/or hear from others, avoid placing contacts/electrodes above the waist especially on both hands, arms, breasts etc..
When using AC powered (utility - mains) devices be SURE the wiring (hot, neutral, and ground [if one]) is correct and the cord is in GOOD condition. Always avoid accidental grounding which could result in shock even electrocution.
Read the book, Juice written by Uncle Abdul. It discusses electrical play. There is also is a 9 page detailed booklet written by Lady Robin available at: LadyRobin-SaferE-Stim.html .
Watch for and attend e-stim / electric play demos - workshops whenever possible.
Popular devices include "TENS" units designed for the relief of muscle and back pain; muscle stimulation devices (EMS), several different e-stim power boxes, and "Violet Wands" (VW) use a radio frequency high voltage, very low current discharge. Many people use VWs above the waist as long as the eyes are avoided but because VWs are powered by household voltage, there always is a risk of malfunction, accidental grounding, etc.. All forms of e-stim - electrical play can be dangerous in BDSM play seems a scary notion to most people, but it can be made safer by adhering to several rules:
a) Only use devices designed and intended for use on the human body, especially AVOID training shock collars, home made, improvised such as ‘stereo stim’, and modified devices.
b) Irrespective of what you see on web sites and/or hear from others, avoid placing contacts/electrodes above the waist especially on both hands, arms, breasts etc..
c) When using AC powered (utility – mains) devices be SURE the wiring (hot, neutral, and ground [if one]) is correct and the cord is in GOOD condition. Always avoid accidental grounding which could result in shock even electrocution.
d) Read the book, Juice written by Uncle Abdul. It discusses electrical play There also is a 9 page detailed booklet written by Lady Robin available at: http://www.thebrc.net/articles/MISC_CONTRIBUTIONS/LadyRobin-SaferE-Stim.html Watch for and attend e-stim / electric play demos – workshops whenever possible.
Popular devices include “TENS” units designed for the relief of muscle and back pain; muscle stimulation devices (EMS), several different e-stim power boxes, and “Violet Wands” (VW) use a radio frequency high voltage, very low current discharge. Many people use VWs above the waist as long as the eyes are avoided but because VWs are powered by household voltage, there always is a risk of malfunction, accidental grounding, etc.. All forms of e-stim – electrical play can be dangerous.
EnemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. – (See also: Bathroom Use ControlScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterizationScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. , CatheterizationScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemasScenes where the DominantThe one in charge, or the top who oversees and controls. The responsible One. A Dominant should be well versed in the areas of play to be explored, seek to be educated in those areas of a playlist not familiar with before engaging in play, be knowledgeable of health risks and dangers and take appropriate safety precautions. restricts or takes control over the submissive’s bodily functions through the use of techniques such as catheterization, enemas, diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play., diapersWaterproof panties or cloth worn in BDSM play for the object of child-playing scenes. Also used in control scenes for controlling bodily functions., rubber pants, and possibly golden showers. Examples in play: House training a puppy, age playActing as if you were either younger or perhaps older than you really are., and golden shower play. ) A thorough anal cleaning involving a water bottle and tube. Most frequently used in medical scening although might also be used for control scenes as well.
Enforced ChastityIn BDSM / S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. A means of domination over one's submissive. A device (lockable ) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation. – (See also: Chastity BeltIn S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one (male or female) from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. A device (lockable) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation. ) In BDSM / S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. A means of domination over one’s submissive. A device (lockable ) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation. See also
