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The Muir Woods with my brother

My brother called in the beginning of my February tour to tell me he had taken the third week of the month off and wanted to get together.  My brother and I have just found each other for a year and eight months now.  He is a challenged person, functional in society and lives with a guardian couple and three other people such as himself.  I explained that my life is a bit more planned out than his but I could make Thursday to Sunday morning work.  This would be the first time since we found each other that I have spent time with Mark for longer than a day trip.


It was a very successful trip.  I learned more about my brothers job, his trials in getting along with co-workers, his house situation, how well he is looked after, who cares about him truly and what my brother likes.  He loves coffee as much as I do.  I shall be following up that his hernia  is operated on, his feet and toe nails fixed and cared for, and that there is no bullying at work.  My brother is not a saint and there are people who are paid by the government to look after him, to make sure he does groom himself, even if he would rather play video games.  I grew up with him.  I know how difficult he can be sometimes, but he has a good heart and with strong, firm guidance, he does obey. Trust me, I know this.


I look forward to knowing him better, and supporting the people who signed up as a job in taking care of him.  He has a family member to check up on him now.  He is not alone in the world.


Photos can be found here:

Indianapolis February 17 – 21

This was my first time at the Omni Severin Hotel.  I think I will just book directly into this hotel from now on.  I loved it here.


Even when the cab driver at the Amtrak station walked me to the street sidewalk, pointed 1.5 blocked away and told me, that was my hotel and I could walk there with all of my luggage at midnight.  Welcome to Indianapolis.  Real people live here.  It was brisk and cold, but I had my heavy winter lambskin coat and cashmere scarf.  Once I got over the shock that I was told to walk, it was not that bad, not that far.


I am a club member at Omni Hotels, so they bring me coffee with soy milk every morning to my hotel room. Swoon.


I had rockin’ sessions in Indianapolis.


One of my Ponies, Ginger, lives in Indianapolis.  We ponied on the Mezzanine every day.  So fun.  She had practiced since I last saw her.   She was so good.  I can’t wait to see her again.


And now I am meeting some very fine gentleman in Indianapolis to play with too.  Total awesome fabulousa.


I love my life.



Chicago February 12 – 16

I had a great week in Chicago, a full week of work, which I really appreciate.  I was at the Hotel Felix, a renovated former flop house.  It has this quirk of being very modern with a pole that is about 12 inches long for a closet with a curtain hung to hide the clothes you hang on this pole.  Think of the pole as a long hook.  I’ve had smaller rooms, but I’ve had much larger ones too.  It is a four star rated hotel.


So, let’s talk reviews.  Yes, you gentlemen get to review me on, most likely other places too.


Am I on time?  Am I ready and all put together for you? OR  Are you 20 minutes early and I explain I am not quite put together but I will let you up to my room and we can chat while I finish. Did I wear what you requested me to wear?  Do I have out all the toys you need that were on my list?

Have you made a list of what you want to explore?  This should be a guideline, because if you have a detail blow by blow scene in your head, I need to know my part, so I can perform my part.  I don’t read minds.  I obey.  Totally different.  I am a submissive for hire.  I am not your personal pet that only has your marks on her.  Sometimes I accept hardcore sessions that leave me bruised and marked up.  If that is a problem for you, ask me when you make the appointment if I will have any marks.  I have no hard feelings, it isn’t a problem if you need to wait until I am a bit fresher canvas for you.  I can never guarantee an absolute clean canvas.  I can tell you if the week before I did a two hour caning session and my ass is beat up.  If I have a bruise just on the top of my ass, feel free to play all around it.  If you continuously hit the bruised bit, I most likely cannot take a lot of punishment there.  It is a damaged area.  That is why there is a bruise.  Some people like hitting bruises (sadists).  I know.  All I ask is that when I feel I am reaching my limit and call yellow you either move on or ask me to take one more and then move on.


Are we on the same page so far?


So, no whining that I am bruised in your review.  Be responsible for your needs up front.   Spank or with a whappie toy hit around the bruise or be prepared that on the bruise I will reach my limit faster than an area of skin that is undamaged.


Ass Play and penetration requires a hard object and lots of LUBE.  If you have a soft penis toy it is almost impossible to insert it into my ass or anyone’s ass for that matter, no matter how much lube you use.  Use a hard penis toy and LUBE.  If you are turned off by a bruise on my ass,  and all you have is a soft toy and your requirement is Ass Play, I will do my best to serve you.  If you whine in your review that you didn’t get to do ass play and you expect more from me, although you reached satisfaction 3 (yes, THREE) times in your session, and you are not under 30, and I fulfilled all of your other requests, I will not accept another session with you.  Just saying, be real, I gave it my best and you are just a whiner.  I do not accept sessions with parameters that I cannot win, and then you are unhappy with me.


You want to make up a game I cannot win at, make me play, I fail and you are satisfied – game on.  That is totally different.


Generally speaking, I appreciate all of you gentlemen.  I have the privilege to know outstanding kinksters.  Sometimes, I have the most fascinating of conversations.  Even the day of the session in which I got told I was “nice” on TER, I ended the day feeling that it was a great day.  If I play with a partner and see that we explored, we tried this and that, there was great energy, it was a fun and satisfying time, I think that is a winner day.  I love my life.

Kansas City February 8 – 11

There is an incredible Market downtown in Kansas City.  Love, love, LOVE it. Cosentino’s Market.  If you are in Kansas City downtown, go in here for a snack, your refreshments, a fresh cooked meal for market prices on healthy stuff.  I get tired of paying an extra 30 – 50% for the convenience of a little market offering what I need to make a healthy choice beverage.


There are two incredible architectural hotels downtown, Hotel Phillips and The Hilton President Hotel.   They have the most beautiful stair work, railings, rooms.  There is something about the craftsmanship I find marvelous and appealing.  The rooms themselves can be a bit odd, depending on whether you are in a suite or a regular room.  Given the age of the hotels, most of  the rooms were designed for a single traveling man and only large enough for his trunk and a small bed.  A modern room, and being  a historical hotel, they have to show where the rooms originally were, is actually 2.5 rooms.  One room now being for the second bed or living space with chairs, desk, one room for a double bed, and a bathroom.  Originally, each floor had one bathroom all the men shared.  How times and the sense of proper space changes.


Hotel Phillips Lobby

Tampa February 4 – 7

It is always lovely in Tampa.  I am finding the different neighborhoods interesting.  This time I stayed at the Hilton Tampa Airport which is walking distance to the International Plaza Mall, and a bunch of shops I could spend a lot of money at.  Gucci has a pair of Fall boots I love.  It was explained to me that the Fall boots come out in Spring/Summer and given my size 4.5/5 foot, I need to hop on it if I am ever to own a pair of their boots.  I not only loved the fetish style, with ultra tall heel and fine leather, I love the equestrian accent.



Gucci Boots and Purse


Most of my Tampa clients seem to drive from Fort Meyers.  I am wondering if they would travel to Ft. Lauderdale on the 75 when I arrive for a BDSM conference April 3 – 7.  I only have one presentation class Thursday night and no other obligations.

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