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Real Time submissive service sessions

Q: You are listed on Eros Guide as doing submissive service sessions. What kind of sessions do you like? What turns you on? Do you do sessions with experienced players only? Do you do sessions with novices? Do you do sessions with more than one person or couples? Do you like sessions with men better than women? What do you wear? Can I ask you to dress how I want? What are my options? Do you ever Top? What is in the sub bag you bring? Do you do InCall and Outcall?


Bootblacking for Beginner Opportunists

There you are, at the toe of your Owners boot, smelling it (taking in the aroma of leather), kissing it (own up, you are loving the opportunity to take in the leather smell/feel/taste and give homage to Your leather/boot fetish as much as getting off on displaying how much you admire and are devoted to the Owner of these boots), when you open your eyes and see scuff marks. After the play is over, you muster all your boldness to offer

“May i clean and polish Your boots, Sir?”

Now what?

Be prepared, as all good scouts and submissives are, and have your Boot Kit ready.

Things of Interest: A Resource Guide for Service Slaves and Households

In the great world around us, which many in our life style refer to as the Vanilla World, there exists many resources that are valid and well worth our time. In the Season of Gift Giving, this may be a great alternative list of fabulous gifts that will be treasured. Please peruse this list of Books about Leadership, Books about Service, Books of interest about relationships, Lifestyle Training and Etiquette books, Books and Items of General Interest, and Movies, Drama Series, Documentaries



Sex Toys, Lube and cleaning toys

Q: What Sex Toys are Made of? How do i clean them? What kind of lube do i use with them?

“You do online submissive web camming and use sex toys during sessions as a profession. Over the last year i’ve seen many articles on sex toys being dangerous for my health. What do you know about this? Do you have recommendations of “safe” toys? What are your recommendations for cleaning sex toys?”



Let’s talk about Service

There are different types of serving and different levels of service. Everybody serves to some degree. The CEO serves the stock brokers, the administrators and field workers serve the CEO. A maid serves her boss. A student serves a teacher. A slave serves a Domme. There is nothing inherently bad or demeaning about service. If one feels humiliated or embarrassed, it is something one has added to the experience, just as one can add pride to a job well done.


Anal Training

Question: Ok so I was watching Yo Momma’s a Freak# 3 and I have a question for you. I have a girl who has never done anal before at all. I have never had someone who was so new, most girls in the past either weren’t into anal or had a lot of experience and were easy to penetrate. So my question is how did you get to the point where you could take a cock so easy? I am no where near as big as the guy you were with in the movie but its still too much for her at this point.



A Servant’s Resource Guide

Question: Mistress has told me to plan a formal dinner for her and 11 friends. i have a week to put a plan together. Help!

Answer: This is part of the job of being a service submissive. It is a wonderful opportunity to have Mistress be proud of you, and show you off in front of her friends.


“Your BDSM/Kink Library recommendations, please”

“I read your post on a bdsm site that you are a reader. Would you forward to me your recommended reading list of BDSM, Kink and Erotica?”