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What makes something “good entertainment’?

I just saw three movies, “The Book Club”, “Colette” and “Ocean’s Eight”, all of which I would say were chick flicks, although “Colette” would say probably would like a larger audience.  

I thought “Colette” was good, I learned about a female author I did not know of, her life, her struggles at the turn of the century and into the 1900’s.  I was entertained, I was educated about the subject, the story was interesting but at the end I was was not in that space of telling all my friends what a great little flick this was and you should go see it.

I enjoyed “The Book Club” and while the story was enjoyable, I was more fascinated by the actors, how they looked in their mature years comparitively and that I hadn’t seen Don Johnson in years in anything.  Yes, I laughed, yes, it was escape worthy but no, I wouldn’t tell my friends to check out this flick.


“Ocean’s 8” was wonderful.  Yes, you should check out that flick.  I loved the story.  I found myself routing for the team.  I was worried it might not work out for them.  No, I didn’t figure out the whole deal.  No, I was not focused on the actors, I saw their characters.  Yes, there are lines I just loved such as: “No, that’s a Him, I don’t want a Him.  A Him gets noticed, a Her gets ignored. And for once, we’d like to be ignored.”  Yes, another friend told me to check out this flick.


So, I am sitting here pondering what made “Ocean’s 8” better?  They were all fun.  They all had good stories, Ocean’s 8 was a bit more complex. Costumes?  Colette was excellent in style.  Ocean’s 8 had flare and was spot on in my opinion.  I really didn’t notice the style in The Book Club.  I really don’t have an exact answer as to why one film makes you want to share it with all your friends and others don’t, except that the  phenomenon happens.


Thanks, Tony, for the tip.  It was great!



I am a lifestyle and professional submissive. I offer obedience without hesitation.

I am deviant, perverse, and experienced. How may I please you?

Let’s dance, let’s play, let’s have fun.

Let’s pretend I am your dream girlfriend.

Instruct me to perform for you, command my movements to the whim of your pleasure. Tell me how to entertain you, I desire to follow your lead.

We may be as gentle or wild as you want.

Yes, I have limits, and within them there is a world of sensuality, a provocative buffet of perverse and deviant behaviors to explore. Let’s escape to an erotic world of our creation others only fantasize about.

Dress me, in fine lingerie, seamed stockings, heels.

How about leather?  Do you enjoy the smell of leather?  Yes? because, I do.  There is nothing like being erotically spanked over your lap by your leather gloved hand while the other cups by face sending the smell of that cowhide through me.

Great times together happen in the mind, the tease and denial, humor, dirty talk, good connected communication of two beings, one taking the other and folding that energy into them, as everything is stripped away to the vulnerable core to be taken.

Is it the second skin of latex that turns you on? Caressing the smooth, lube slick surface is so deliciously erotic.

The role play fulfillment of doing all those things you have previously only fantasied about with your secretary? your boss? in your grasp to feel, to revel in at last. Does that excite you?

Do you crave beholding a restrained, disheveled, sexy woman struggling in her bonds at your feet before you?

Do you have that wild crazy thought still held in your mind? Please share it.

Let’s play.




role play

use of restraints and bindings




training in pain acceptance



feet worship

puppy play

piggy play

corset and foot training

percussion play: flogging, spanking, paddling rigging

medical play

nipple torture

tease and denial


water sports








Business Attire




Garter Belt/Thigh High Stockings


Retro Girdle and Bra

Little Red dress




School Girl-authentic not trashy


Collars: Leather or pvc

Leather Ankle and Wrist cuffs


I have a sub bag filled with my bdsm toys for you to use on me.

And Eros is changing

It was down a day at least and now they are editing the amount you can write.  We live in fast changing times.


On the upside, I did a photo shoot to create new still photo content for my eros ads.  Enjoy.  The collection is in my Free Photo Gallery here, “Latest Updates”.

Dressage Training

Dressage Training as a Pony:

Got it.
Oh, you want this more collected. Okay.
What was that ? You want what?
No, really, i have no clue.
Okay. okay, I can do this.
i’m going where? 
Yes, i am a good Pony.
Water. Whinny!
We going again?
It is a trot. Okay, faster trot, got it.
I love this.
Oh, you want me to end up there on my half pass.
Okay. Got it.
I can do this all day.
What do you mean we are stopping?

Dressage Training as a Trainer:

(Looking at Test) what is the starting gait? 
This, this, this and then this – got it.
Oh, f@*k, what comes next?
We do what?
No, no, no, across the arena, full strides.
Oh, that’s beautiful. Nice.
Oh, damn. How do I do this?
Okay. And next?
Nice. Good form.
What is next? Really?
Okay, I get it, I see what the test wants.
Oh my gosh, this is exhausting.

How about some water, boy?

I need to try this again.
We need a bit more difference between Medium Trot and Working Trot, come on, you can do it.
Okay, Okay. Got this.
We got this.
You are an amazing Pony.

I’m sweating. I am so done.
Have some water.

That is mentally exhausting. And I’m hot. No, I am done.
Where are your brushes?

Stockings and pantyhose.


Denier is the weight of the fabric in your tights, stockings and hosiery. Usually, the heavier and thicker the material, the higher the denier.

Low Denier hosiery is lighter, less thick and around 5 to 20 denier. Sheer tights and stockings often have lower deniers. The lightest hosiery sheer styles, of under 10 denier, are called ultra sheer and they are especially light, almost invisible. They often feel like a second skin or a sort of makeup for your legs. Low denier ultra sheer tights are delicate, the fibers are woven very close together.  I love this grade of stockings. Many people prefer going for a little safer option and wearing 15 to 20 deniers, especially if you wear sheer hosiery to work.

Stockings may be sorted by holdup (not needing a garter) versus stocking (needing a garter).  They may be sorted by seamed, cuban heeled, with toe enforced and without toe enforced.  Stockings may also be sorted by color.


I wear stockings made for someone 5’2″ tall and 115 lbs.  


As a thank you or a nice greeting gift, stockings are wonderful.


Pretty Polly Flirty Hold ups:  I like th eBackseam Hold Ups and the Flirty

Pretty Polly 9 denier Hold ups  Size small/Medium   Color:  Barely There

Pretty Polly Lace Top Hold Ups  Size:  Small/Medium   Color:  Nude or Black

Pretty Polly Stockings  Size:  Small/Medium   Color:  Sherry

New Original Clip with Damon Pierce

May 19, I visited Damon Pierce, an internationally recognized Bondage Rigger, Director, Producer, Rope Artist, Master/Dominant/Owner, BDSM Educator, and Rope Maker, and Trainer.  He has a site “Slave to Bondage.”  We shot a bondage plus skull fucking scene.  


To see this video, you will need to be a Member of this site.  You become a member by sending a $50.00 Amazon Gift Card to and writing me an email that you want Members Only access on this site.  Sometimes people send gift cards as thank you’s for real time sessions, so, the second part is really important.


I will keep you posted when this content will be available.

The DomConLA Pony Show


Isn’t this Poster lovely?  My friend, Raven, creates them for me.  Human connections, celebrate them.  I think they are what makes life special.



Derby Day with LAPACC


Derby Day, held on the same day as the Kentucky Derby each year (the first saturday of May) is a favorite of the Los Angeles Pony and Critter Club.  


Races for the Day:

1. Derby Race

2. Steeplechase Race

3. Greyhound Race

4. Pacer Race

5. Puppy Hurdle Race

6. Trotter Race


It was a sunny and hot day.  Activities were capped off with a watergun fight after props had been loaded into the van.  BEYOND Wonderful!


$175 was raised for the No-Kill LA Adoption Center.

Jessica Rabbit Park Ranger

My new cosplay character caught perusing the auction of the IMsL Convention.


so Much Fun!

I must send my sincerest thank you’s to the northeast corridor (Washington DC, Philadelphia, Manhattan and Boston) for an outstanding month of play.




Pantyhose encasement.  Not just wearing a pantyhose but having three pair put on my feet/legs bottom torso, two pair on arms with slice cut at crotch for my head to go through AND a stocking over my head.  The layers and I can only assume control type pantyhose added compression sensation on my body.  To add to this casement was electrical tape wound over the stocking over my mouth and around my head.  Then again at eye level and around my head..  Electrical tape smells foul.  Restraint of limbs to bondage device and a merry go round of tickling/spanking/licking.  


Civil War Calvary Officer taken prisoner by drug dealer she was trying to shut down.  (Yes, I know they didn’t have women officers – this is a fantasy).  Humiliation, bondage, degradation, made to dance, forced to serve, sold to whore house in Mexico.  It is a fantasy.  Let your imagination go wild.