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Spring Tour

It’s coming!


  • Washington DC  March 4 to March 11
  • Philadelphia  March 11 to March 15
  • March 16 to March 24 in Los Angeles
  • Manhattan  March 25 March 30
  • New Haven  March 30 to 31
  • Boston April 1 to April 5

Apple Pie

Slice 4 peeled red delicious apples







1/2 cup brown sugar, 1/8 teaspoon salt, 1 tablespoon cornstarch, 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon, 1/8 teaspoon nutmeg






Mix over, under, all around apples and let sit.






6 tbs shortening








6 tablespoons butter






2 cups all purpose flour. Cut shortening and butter into flour.








This is what it looks like finally.







4 tablespoons water, mix with hand and form ball. If needed add 1 more tablespoon water. Handle as little as possible.







Cut in half. Preheat oven 450 degrees.






Roll out 9 ” circle. (I like my crust thin, so I make the circle bigger)






Put in pan by placing pan over rolled out dough, and flip over entire sheet into pan.  Roll out second half.






Fill bottom half with apple mixture (pile high in middle and round down to top of crust) and dot with 1 tablespoon of butter.





Top (this one you need align with you pie and slowly roll over/flip onto it) and fold crusts.







Pick air holes with fork. In oven 10 minutes at 450. Then 350 degrees 35 to 45 minutes.







I look at my pie at 30 minutes, 35 minutes, and check color of crust to determine if I need 2 – 5 minutes more.





If you top your Apple pie with cheese, omit 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon, 1/8 teaspoon nutmeg spices and add 1/2 teaspoon fennel instead.

Crafting Gifts

The Los Angeles Pony and Critter Club hold a Holiday party each year and we do a handcrafted gift.  I have made hot pepper chocolate, pralines, and spaghetti sauce. For two years i painted toy boxes.  This year I am painting something original.  First I plan my paintings in pencil on white paper.  i use the same white paper to protect my dinningroom table while I paint in acrylic.








And these are my finished paintings.  Not exactly what I planned but I think allowing creative impluse to take over is important.  Also, I really like the texture you can make with acrylic.

I have a new fur buddy companion, Ollie (short for Oliver)

I found Ollie at the No Kill Los Angeles Adoption Center.  He is a Lab mix.   I find his energy to be 80% Chocolate Labrador Retriever.  By his coloring, I would say Fox Hound is the next biggest mix in.  Ollie is a happy, jolly, friendly guy, a big teddy bear.  He has the most wonderful eyes.  Squirrels beware.

Rescue dogs are not always perfect, some need training.  Ollie is a smart boy and we are progressing nicely.  He needs to learn not to lunge at dogs on the street and start baying at them.  It is a very bad representation of wanting to be friends, wanting to play and demonstrates not having any social skills.  At the Dog Park, he does excellent.  I am certain with time we can correct this.  He pulls some times on the leash, so I am using the Gentle Leader with his harness.   It is more like reining, and I have more control and we do better on our walks around the neighborhood. 

Ollie and I hike in the morning, which I am loving.


We met some friends in the park and I discovered Ollie has frisbee skills.  I have never owned a dog that can run, jump and catch a frisbee.  Huzzah!


And Ollie has lost weight, he is lots more tone.



Thank you Manhattan, Providence and Boston!

Wow, that was an amazing twelve days.

Please do pre-book your appointments if I am visiting your city.  I require a $100 (per hour of my time that your reserve) deposit.  I left for Manhattan and Boston with almost every day booked.  I only accepted four new appointments.


Manhattan highlights:

The room had a terrace balancy overlooking Madison.  That was so cool.  I went out on the terrace sometimes just for the view and wonderful weather.  Spectacular.


I truly enjoy seeing the gentlemen I have had the privledge to get to know over the years.  I love reconnecting.   It is such a electric safe space to play.  I loved playing with you all, finding new territories we had not explored before.  Having you share your fetishes with me without pause is a beautiful thing.


Providence, Rhode Island


Who knew this would be THE hot spot to stop for the weekend?  Comic Con was happening right across the street!  Thank you to the gentlemen who turned what I thought would be a quiet weekend into a jumping good time!

I enjoyed the Service Topping sessions in which I got to explore my bondage, tease and denial, sensory play, edging, anal play, strap-on play, light to medium cbt and impact play.  Just marvelous to revel in a Topping high.


Boston highlight:


My favorite was a session I hardly ever get to do, submitting to a crossdresser.    A lot of effort was put into her look and it really enhanced the play.  Plus it included watersport play, which I find hot because it is so naughty, nasty dirty.  I love boot worship, and these were pvc thigh high lace ups.  Huzzah!


I was busy right up to the moment I had to check out and leave to th eairport.  I loved it.  I was so tired and satisfied getting on that plane.  Thank you ALL.




Taking off for Manhattan, NYC; Providence, RI; and Boston Mass.!

Packing my business clothes, personal clothes, toys and tools.  So many lists to check and recheck.

Manhattan, Midtown East.  October 29 to November 3 (end sessions at Noon)

Providence, Rhode Island.  November 3 to November 4 (end sessions at Midnight)

Boston, Mass. , Downtown.  November 5 to November 9 (end sessions at Noon)


I require a $100 deposit (non-refundable) to reserve my time on tour.  This can be paid with gift cards on Amazon.






I visited Washington DC and Philadelphia in October!

It was hot in DC in October for about 4 days before turning reasonable.  That was a shocker.  I was there October 8 to October 14.  Thank you for the wonderful welcome!  My calendar was full.  It was a very fun and successful tour.


I took the Regional on Monday to Philadelphia, enjoyed the colder weather October 15 to October 19.  I was able to enjoy lots of fun play and visit my best girlfriend, Astra on Thursday while I was there.


My highlight is most likely an unfair pick because I did the session with Astra. lol.


I have a long time (we go back to the beginning of my pro-submissive career which is 12 years) sploshing client, Al.  When I met Al, he would book a hotel room close to me, completely Dexter it in  heavy plastic including rolling towels up, placing like a row of logs on the coffee table and covering this in plastic.  This would be my table.  We learned through the exploration to stick to all sweets with maybe maple baked beans or savory but not mix. ugh.

So there I was, enjoying my sessions, having a break thinking about seeing my girlfriend, Astra, the next day, wondering what would we do together that would be fun?  And the phone rang.  It was Al, Thursday was his birthday and would I do sploshing with him?  Astra had introduced me to spoloshing, so, I explained I had promised to spend my day with her and could she come along?  He said yes, she was delighted.  OMG, what fun.  Astra directed the scene.  Messy, cold at times, cream pies, chocolate sauce, strawberry syrup, pool of slime, ooooooooooooh.  It was fantastic fun for all involved.

I love my life.

What makes something “good entertainment’?

I just saw three movies, “The Book Club”, “Colette” and “Ocean’s Eight”, all of which I would say were chick flicks, although “Colette” would say probably would like a larger audience.  

I thought “Colette” was good, I learned about a female author I did not know of, her life, her struggles at the turn of the century and into the 1900’s.  I was entertained, I was educated about the subject, the story was interesting but at the end I was was not in that space of telling all my friends what a great little flick this was and you should go see it.

I enjoyed “The Book Club” and while the story was enjoyable, I was more fascinated by the actors, how they looked in their mature years comparitively and that I hadn’t seen Don Johnson in years in anything.  Yes, I laughed, yes, it was escape worthy but no, I wouldn’t tell my friends to check out this flick.


“Ocean’s 8” was wonderful.  Yes, you should check out that flick.  I loved the story.  I found myself routing for the team.  I was worried it might not work out for them.  No, I didn’t figure out the whole deal.  No, I was not focused on the actors, I saw their characters.  Yes, there are lines I just loved such as: “No, that’s a Him, I don’t want a Him.  A Him gets noticed, a Her gets ignored. And for once, we’d like to be ignored.”  Yes, another friend told me to check out this flick.


So, I am sitting here pondering what made “Ocean’s 8” better?  They were all fun.  They all had good stories, Ocean’s 8 was a bit more complex. Costumes?  Colette was excellent in style.  Ocean’s 8 had flare and was spot on in my opinion.  I really didn’t notice the style in The Book Club.  I really don’t have an exact answer as to why one film makes you want to share it with all your friends and others don’t, except that the  phenomenon happens.


Thanks, Tony, for the tip.  It was great!



I am a lifestyle and professional submissive. I offer obedience without hesitation.

I am deviant, perverse, and experienced. How may I please you?

Let’s dance, let’s play, let’s have fun.

Let’s pretend I am your dream girlfriend.

Instruct me to perform for you, command my movements to the whim of your pleasure. Tell me how to entertain you, I desire to follow your lead.

We may be as gentle or wild as you want.

Yes, I have limits, and within them there is a world of sensuality, a provocative buffet of perverse and deviant behaviors to explore. Let’s escape to an erotic world of our creation others only fantasize about.

Dress me, in fine lingerie, seamed stockings, heels.

How about leather?  Do you enjoy the smell of leather?  Yes? because, I do.  There is nothing like being erotically spanked over your lap by your leather gloved hand while the other cups by face sending the smell of that cowhide through me.

Great times together happen in the mind, the tease and denial, humor, dirty talk, good connected communication of two beings, one taking the other and folding that energy into them, as everything is stripped away to the vulnerable core to be taken.

Is it the second skin of latex that turns you on? Caressing the smooth, lube slick surface is so deliciously erotic.

The role play fulfillment of doing all those things you have previously only fantasied about with your secretary? your boss? in your grasp to feel, to revel in at last. Does that excite you?

Do you crave beholding a restrained, disheveled, sexy woman struggling in her bonds at your feet before you?

Do you have that wild crazy thought still held in your mind? Please share it.

Let’s play.




role play

use of restraints and bindings




training in pain acceptance



feet worship

puppy play

piggy play

corset and foot training

percussion play: flogging, spanking, paddling rigging

medical play

nipple torture

tease and denial


water sports








Business Attire




Garter Belt/Thigh High Stockings


Retro Girdle and Bra

Little Red dress




School Girl-authentic not trashy


Collars: Leather or pvc

Leather Ankle and Wrist cuffs


I have a sub bag filled with my bdsm toys for you to use on me.

And Eros is changing

It was down a day at least and now they are editing the amount you can write.  We live in fast changing times.


On the upside, I did a photo shoot to create new still photo content for my eros ads.  Enjoy.  The collection is in my Free Photo Gallery here, “Latest Updates”.