Question:
How do I get my Daddy to take up learning how do to all that great rope bondage I see in bdsm pics without sounding like I want him to please me?
Little_subbie_grl
Answer:
You don’t. Lol. However, there are ways to ask to explore experiences you haven’t been privy too.
I’ve used three tactics I will share with you.
1) If you attend clubs with your Dom and there is someone who knows how to do rope bondage there and you are watching that person perform, you may ask your Dom:
“That looks lovely, Sir. Would You consider letting me be tied up by the Dom performing rope bondage so that I can experience rope bondage, Sir?”
This gives him choices. He can say yes. He can say no. He becomes aware that you are interested in this activity and does something to include it in your play or ignores it.
2) Ask your Dom if you may discuss your play list. If He says yes, show your Dom a photograph of rope bondage you would like to experience. I suggest following this idea with idea #3.
3) Tribute Gift your Dom with a manual on rope bondage, a good sharp pair of bandage scissors or knife and rope. You may be forward and include a note that you give yourself to him to be completely available to practice on whenever your Dom wishes to practice.
Here are some sources for you:
Manuals:
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori, Craig Morey (Photographer)
Erotic Bondage: The Art of Rope by Edward Lee (Photographer), Alphonse De Loys (Photographer)
Bondage for Sex by Chanta Rose
Shibari You Can Use by Bridgett Harrington
Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman
Online Tutorials:
http://www.bdsm-chicago.com/cram/CRAM_links.html
http://www.bdsm-chicago.com/cram/CRAM_tuts.html
http://www.japanrope.com/tutorial.html
Rope:
http://www.stockroom.com/Cotton-Bondage-Rope
Knots:
http://www.animatedknots.com/index.php?LogoImage=LogoGrog.jpg&Website=www.animatedknots.com
Tip for Submissives before doing rope bondage: Stretch all of your body muscles in advance. Muscle cramps suck in bondage.