Q: You are listed on Eros Guide as doing submissive service sessions. What kind of sessions do you like? What turns you on? Do you do sessions with experienced players only? Do you do sessions with novices? Do you do sessions with more than one person or couples? Do you like sessions with men better than women? What do you wear? Can I ask you to dress how I want? What are my options? Do you ever Top? What is in the sub bag you bring? Do you do InCall and Outcall?
A: I have received more and more requests for real time sessions, and simply listing my submissive services on the Eros Guide was another way to facilitate interested people in finding me.
If you want to e-mail me to arrange a session, use this address:
For a review of my real time sessions, use this address:
What kind of sessions do you like?
I enjoy the Dominant/submissive dynamic. Even for the novice and newcomer to this experience, I will open myself up to follow your lead, to obey without hesitation, to give you the best possible experience of the Dominant and/or Top head space. I invite you to use me as a submissive, engage yourself in the activities and opportunity of using a submissive, those experiences that being with another woman are not available to you.
I like erotic domination, fun kinky play, exploring fetishes, the sound of being strapped into my cuffs, the clink of metal on metal as carobiners are clipped on to tightly bind me in a hog tie. I love being trained to be your perfect servant. I love light hearted sessions filled with giggles and laughter. I love being told to be quiet and focus if this is what pleases you. I love the snap of a leather crop on my ass. I love being your puppy or foot stool. I love giving you a massage, a bath, drying you off, and dressing you. I love discipline, a sound spanking, and knowing my place. The buffet of the BDSM table is a grandly set banquet, so much to enjoy daily.
Ultimately, I enjoy the sessions where I have facilitated my partner in communicating to me in a way that I was able to serve Him exactly as He desired. I enjoy my partner being pleased, entertained and amused, however, as a submissive it is only my job to obey. All of the types of play I list on Eros LA are formats I enjoy.
use of restraints and bindings
training in pain acceptance
animal role play
corset and foot training
percussion/impact play (flogging, spanking, paddling, etc.)
rigging (rope bondage)
I do have limits.
My limits are:
No permanent damage.
No breaking your toy.
No partners under 21 years old.
No blood play.
No scat or poop play.
No piercing, no temporary piercing, no needle play.
No tattoos. (on me).
No fluid (spit and pee are a fluids) exchange play. I have my hard copy of current clean sex test (chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV and Hep A, B, C) to show you. No fluid exchange, no exceptions. Exchange means to place the fluid in to my body or near a place that it would go in my body. Cum, pre-cum, spit and pee on my chest, back, belly, legs is not exchange.
All oral, vaginal and anal penetrations with toys are covered, I bring condoms and gloves for all toys.
Rates for submissive service:
The fee is $450.00 per hour for soft play (no marks that last more than 1 – 2 days).
$1000.00 per hour for Hard play (i.e., anything stressful such as repeated full 2 liter enema play or heavy marking of up to 100 strokes ). I cannot do this play if I have a photo shoot scheduled. This type of play must be planned/scheduled in advance. I do not do extreme play with partners that are not documented as knowing what they are doing.
The fee for couples or two people is $650.00 per hour.
If you wish to book a session and it is the first time I am meeting you, I require that you buy a minimum $100.00 non-refundable membership to my educational site.
I will deduct the amount from your donation when we do the session. If you cancel your appointment for any reason, the $100 is my cut fee and non-refundable.
If you wish to pre-book a session when I am visiting a city, I require a $100.00 deposit. You pay by sending an amazon Gift Card to firstname.lastname@example.org. You may request a membership for one month access to the Members Gallery to my educational site: www.asksubmissann.com. I will deduct the amount of your deposit from your donation when we do the session.
Cut Fees: If you schedule an appointment with me, I write it in my book. If you then cancel, for any reason, there is a $100.00 cut fee. If you cancel, for any reason, less than 24 hours before your appointment, there is a $200.00 cut fee.
If I am visiting a city, your $100.00 deposit is non-refundable and is a Visiting City cut fee.
If you make an appointment, and do not call and do not show up, $450.00 is due for the amount of time you reserved No Call, No Show Fee. You must pay this to talk, text or to ever have another appointment with me. Yes, you will want to, so, please simply respect my requirements of business practice.
Extended session rates for Los Angeles:
1 Hour Introduction $450
2 Hour Tapas $800
3 Hour Dinner $1150
4 Hour Dinner $1500
6 Hours $2000
DAY (9am – 9PM) $3000
24 Hours $6000
One Week $20,000
Extended stay visits need to have half of the rate for my time paid up front, as you are buying my time, and others will be told I am not available.
Visiting Cities: My time is $450.00 per hour. If you are wanting 3 or more consecutive days, but only 3 hours each day (or whatever number of hours) we can negotiate the cost of my time.
Included Play Space or Hotel room in Los Angeles:
You may choose to meet in a Play Space in Mid-City or Tarzana. This is included. If I meet you at YOUR hotel room in Los Angeles I ask that you pay for valet parking and a travel fee if over 45 minutes of driving is required.
What turns me on?
Like most people I am turned on when I see my partner is turned on. When I see a man’s penis go from hard to granite as he strikes me with a crop or places me in a humiliating situation. That’s a turn on.
I love service. I love bathing you, drying you off, massaging you, I love to worship you. I am really into feet. I like the individuality of a person’s smell.
I do beg to cum as we do water sports, as your pee runs over my breasts and down my body. I like the naughty aspect of it. I like the primitive aspects of it. I like the bouquet of smells. That is an extreme turn on for me.
I find the whisper of my partners voice telling me I am his very erotic.
I am a voyeur. When I see you are pleased, when I see you cum, I cum deeply, without any physical stimulation. I am truly a person that is to the depth of my core about serving you, and when I undeniably witness that you are satisfied, I cum without touching myself, without toys, without any stimulation other than the mental knowledge of succeeding in doing my job well.
Who do I do sessions with?
All partners who are clear on consensual play, schedule a session, complete their confirmation call 1 hour before the session or send a text/email confirming their appointment 1 hour before, show up and pay my donation rate are partners I do sessions with.
I have done sessions with people who simply wanted to discuss the Dominant/submissive dynamic, learn skills, learn about a certain aspect of bdsm, explore some new territory of play in a safe environment and explore a fetish in a safe environment. I have done sessions with very experienced players with references for extreme play. . I have had excellent sessions with the novice and curious. Where you are at, be authentic, I will honor you, serve and obey.
Do I ever Top?
I am not a Dominatrix. If you want a session with a Domme, do not call me. Call an experienced competent Domme.
I do have Topping skills my Master taught me. I can wrap myself around the concept of serving you what you desire most. If you have a specific scene you wish to be carried out, if you have a line up of toys you want to experience, if you have a role play that is specific, I can carry this out. This is a Topping from the Bottom session. You tell me how you want to be played with exactly and we do that. We play with gusto, passion, heart, exploring what you asked to explore. I know that you do not want me to let you down, that you want everything you asked for. If the play you want is not in my skill range, I will be very honest with you and tell you that. I do enjoy these sessions very much, and the Topping high is quite extraordinary.
Service Topping menu
Bondage, restraint, and mummification
Tease and denial
Light to medium impact play
Light to medium cbt
My sessions are positive energy and obedience training.
If you are into feminization, I can do this type of session. You must bring your own wardrobe. You must be clear and communicate in the set up of your session to facilitate my having proper supplies/toys. If we go shopping YOU are buying, it is not included in your fee.
Do I do couples and/or multiple partners?
I do consensual play. I do not do sessions with two partners unless both partners communicate their consensual wishes to me personally. I only do sessions with happy couples/multiples. Please note there is a different rate for two people.
What is in your sub bag?
I bring an assortment of toys in my bag to outcall sessions and when I travel. You will have these tools to play with on me:
One thin pvc collar with an “O” ring
One thick leather collar
Leather, 2 wrist and 2 ankle to be worn with carabiners
Crops (assorted sizes)
Fun Whappie Toys
Water based (for vaginal and anal play), silicone (for anal play)
Magic Wand type toy
Vaginal silicone vibrator toy
Clitoris silicone vibrator toy
Anal silicone dildo and vibrator
Anal silicone beaded type plug
Condoms and flavored dental dams for toys
Tongue Depressor (each is medically wrapped)
Strap On with sleek black silicone dong (small and medium sizes)
Icy Hot, Bengay
Dog dish and dog ears, (a Dog Cage available for Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego sessions only), Chain leash
Pig tail (anal insertable), snoot and nose hook
Additional pleasure toys
Additional types of nipple clamps
For the experienced:
A tens unit with pads, latex plug and steel anal plug
Stim Unit with pads
Wood paddle (with and without holes)
Hemp rope (6 lengths of 25 feet)
more cotton and blend rope than a mountaineer carries
What are my wardrobe options?
If you look at my photo gallery, you will see my wardrobe. You can ask me to wear anything there. I do not own the ballet boots or white boots in the bootlovers.com magazine layout.
Most asked for outfits:
- Top, skirt (short or pencil), nylons, leather pumps
- Agent Provacateur corset, panties, classic pumps
- Bodystocking or bodysuit
- Latex Dress
- PVC Nurse outfit
- Business attire, nylons, classic pumps
- Retro white Girdle with white Bra, stockings
- Retro black girdle, Lacy black Bra, Black Half slip, stockings
- Cocktail Dress, stockings, stiletto shoes
Do I do InCall or Outcall?
In Los Angeles I use a private play area in Mid-City or Tarzana. I do share these areas with other professionals and have to check the calendar for availability. These spaces have a rental fee that is included in the rate I charge you. There is no additional cost.
I do Outcall in Los Angeles. You must see me at least ONE time at my Play Space if you want me to go to a private home or condo.
When I travel to another city, I only do InCall.
- In Los Angeles through August 10, 2021
- Vacation August 11 to August 14
- August 15 to September 30 in Los Angeles
- LAPACC Fall Fox Hunt October 2nd (Camping October 1 – 3)
- Travel Day October 4
- Washington DC October 4 to October 10
- Philadelphia October 11 to October 15
- Travel Day October 16
- October 17 to October 24 in Los Angeles
- Manhattan October 25 to October 31
- Boston November 1 to November 4
- Rhode Island Comic Con November 5 to November 7
- Travel Day November 8
- in Los Angeles November 11