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It was actually a client that told me about Wall Murals. This one came in 4 strips and was a Peel and Stick. The trick is to match the leaves or whatever details, pencil mark the edges, peel from the top, wipe with a hand towel as you go to remove air bubbles. This is a two person job if your wall mural is 145″ x 100″
And this makes Images like this Photograph by Perry Gallagher possible
Other Reviews:
John Coltrane “A Love Supreme“
Dave Brubeck Quartet “Time Out“
Charles Mingus “The Black Saint and the Sinner Lady“
Duke Ellington and His Orchestra: Ellington at Newport
Stan Getz / João Gilberto Featuring Antonio Carlos Jobim – Getz / Gilberto
Cannonball Adderley “Somethin’ Else”
Bill Evans Trio* Featuring Scott La Faro* – Sunday at the Village Vanguard
I am asked what are my favorite activities, what makes me hot by play partners daily.
For me , while I like certain activities more than others, to do the same thing every day would be boring. I love exploring the multitudes of kinks and fetishes. They are all delightful, like standing before the ice cream/gelato counter with over 40 flavors and trying to figure out what two you will try today, it is always mouth watering and tasty when you receive your choices.
Submission is not about the kinks or fetishes or activities.
If all you do are the things you like, that is compliance. Seize upon the acts that are hard, that challege you, do them with as much passion and committment as you can muster, that is satisfying to a submissive soul.
For me, the most intimate and importance aspects of playing are Trust, Transparency , Communication and emotional responsibility. That is heady stuff. It isn’t possible in one session to dive deep, it is a relationship built over time. These are the building blocks of a solid foundation to a healthy relationship that can grow over time. It is the principles I use with the Ponies I train, the foundation of our relationships. If you are seeking a D/s relationship this foundation is paramount in achieving the power exchange we all crave to develop. The fetishes and kinks are just the tools that help achieve that exchange. It is perfectly fine to have a healthy relationship and simply explore kinks and fetishes without a D/s relationhip, by the by. Just be kinky free spirit you.
And lastly, a client pays to leave and be emotionally free of me. We are only engaged in our relationship during the time the client has reserved. Over a course of years of knowing a client, our relationship deepens naturally.
Life is what you make of it. I grow my garden with integrity and positive energy. I am very thankful and am very blessed.
If you expect to cultivate and push someone’s limits get to know them.
Respect goes a long way.
I am on my way to tour Manhattan and Boston and I am receiving lots of emails negotiating scenes. This is perfect.
There is always that one that wants to pigeon hole me. How can I be compatable with them and do XYZTV (this, that, some of this, a bit of that) if in two hours I will turn around and do something completely different?
This challenges your view of me?. Does this make me less submissive? Does it make me more Domme?
Well…..my question to you would be, “Less submissive than what, exactly…?” “More Domme that what, do you envision?” Understand, this is neither a race nor a competition, it’s a continuum. There’s no sanctioning body that’s handing out “Domliest Dom” or “Subbiest Sub” certificates. So, please…..don’t compare yourself or me to others. That way lies madness. You are your own unique collection of thoughts, feelings, beliefs and desires, as am I. How you exist is what it is and what it isn’t, and this collection of “being” is here, in this moment and then the next, and, over time, this “being” may evolve and change. That opportunity exists for you, also. What matters is that you accept and understand those desires….and that you understand that they are as valid as anybody else’s. Please, always Be you, be the authentic You. Be the best version of you. Work toward that goal. Explore. There is no One True Way. Some people are wired to crave and seek total power exchange…others aren’t. Both are equally valid….and so are you! Some may toss a coin to choose which way is Heads by the hour. Some may not care. Some may simply explore a fetish, however that adventure trail in exploration leads. It is all good.
