It’s always something.

That itch.  it creeps up on me.

I took off to back East.  I spent a week in Washington, D.C., Philadelphia, Manhattan and Boston.  It was glorious.  I played a LOT.  I had so much fun.  It means a great deal to me to be able to travel and have a heavy work load that makes the tour worth while.  AND I really love letting Robin Pachino be the slut she is.

I even took a day off, Halloween, and went to Salem.  I’d never been.  It was so cool, all the costumes, all the happiness.

Back in Los Angeles, November 7th, I was extremely grateful to my neighbors, whom watered my flowers and strawberry/herb garden.  YAY!  I made them Tomato Sauce as a thank you.

Yes, I have this nifty cool little herb garden with sages, oregano, thyme, rosemary, mint, basil, chamomile, fennel, dill, parsley, chives and red leaf lettuce.  And a hillside of strawberry plants.   It was a deserted patch of land the gardeners blew leaves and top soil off and down to the street, the rain in the winter makes it into a big mud slide, just ick.  So, I turned the soil, turned good soil into it and planted.  It makes me happy.  It is life, growing and smells nice.  The birds in my area evidently do not have any idea about urban gardens because they don’t notice it at all.

I got a rescue dog last week.  I went around to five shelters.  I sat with different dogs, asked the front staff about different dogs.  So much sadness there.  People get dogs and don’t train them, then they aren’t puppies anymore and they tear up everything and aren’t house trained.  Some dogs are escape artists.  There is a beautiful husky in the West side Shelter who is well behaved.  people adopt him and he just runs away.  They can’t contain him, it’s a hassle and he ends up back at the shelter.  So, my dog…..

She was labeled German Shepard.  She isn’t.  She is a Rottweiler and Pit Bull mix.  To say that would have been death.  She is the sweetest dog.  The NoKillLosAngeles Shelter got her from the South Los Angeles Shelter.  A family turned her in.  They say she is 5 but I wonder if she is older.  She has a lot of gray around her nose.  It’s okay to be older.  Did you know nose prints are like fingerprints?  She is house trained, doesn’t get on furniture and quiet.  We are learning to walk and not pull.

I have had a good rest, and today, I really have that itch.  I want to work.  Where are the gents?

How does anyone choose a correct shoe for your foot and needs anymore?  How do you know what is actually a good shoe with support for your foot?  As opposed to a popular brand and the latest color fashion trend?

A shoe should fit your foot, not your foot trying to fit into the shoe.

Things to keep in mind:

• Achilles notch. Reduces stress on the Achilles tendon.
• Ankle collar. Cushions the ankle and ensures proper fit.
• Upper. Holds the shoe on your foot and is usually made of leather, mesh or synthetic material. Mesh allows better ventilation and is lighter weight.
• Insole. Cushions and supports your foot and arch. Removable insoles can be laundered or taken out to dry between walking sessions.
• Midsole. Provides comfort, cushioning and shock absorption.
• Outsole. Makes contact with the ground. Grooves and treads can help maintain traction.
• Toe box. Provides space for the toes. A roomy and round toe box helps prevent calluses.
• Gel pad. Cushions and reduces impact when your foot strikes the ground.
• Roll bar. Helps stabilize your foot if it tends to roll inward when striking the ground.

Consider your foot type.  Mine are short and wide with the big toe longest and a high arch.

Here are some tips for finding the best fit in a pair of walking shoes:

• Wear the same socks you’ll wear when walking, or take the socks with you to the store.
• Shop for shoes after you’ve been walking for a while, and later in the day, when your feet are at their largest.
• Buy shoes at an athletic shoe store with professional fitters or at a store where you have lots of options.
• Ask the salesperson to measure both feet, measure them yourself, or have a friend or family member help you. Measure your feet each time you buy shoes, because your foot size can change gradually over years. Stand while your foot is measured to get the most accurate measurement.
• If one foot is larger than the other, try on a pair that fits your larger foot.
• Try on both shoes and check the fit. Wiggle your toes. If you don’t have at least a half-inch (1.3 centimeters) between your longest toe and the end of the shoe — approximately the width of your finger — try a larger size.
• Be sure the shoe is wide enough. The side-to-side fit of the shoe should be snug, not tight. If you’re a woman with wide feet, consider men’s or boys’ shoes, which are cut a bit larger through the heel and the ball of the foot.
• Walk in the shoes before buying them. They should feel comfortable right away. Make sure your heel fits snugly in each shoe and doesn’t slip as you walk.

I am a submissive. I love to serve. It genuinely pleases me a great deal to see you happy. I also have empath traits, which means I am open to process your feelings and energy. That means I really feel excited when you feel excited.

What this may look like when we see each other is that when you orgasm, I orgasm. I never fake this. It is a product of being truly connected to you, an element of playing which, in my humble opinion, is important. I focus my attention to be connected with you. What happens out of that, happens. I do not need to touch my pussy or have you touch my pussy or clit to orgasm from being truly ecstatic that you are having an orgasm.

However, if this bothers you, as a recent review stated:

Cons – When I was giving her a pearl necklace, she started to moan and shudder like she was having an orgasm too, but I had given her pussy zero attention. It was over-the-top, unexpected, and distracted me a little bit (still came hard though).

Just tell me before we start. I will know to curb my enthusiasm for your orgasm.

Want to talk books?

I have read the Harry Potter books a couple of times, I have binge watched the moves several times, I have spent a glorious 3 days at The Wizarding World of Harry Potter.

I have read The Game of Thrones books a couple times, I have read fan theories, I have watched u-tube clips on story/character theories, I have watched the show.

I just bought as an audio book “Made to Stick:  Why some Ideas Survive and Other Die” by Chip Heath.  You will have to wait until I travel somewhere driving to ask me about it.

Just bought today books:

The Complete Essays of Mark Twain

Ways of Seeing

Just finished:

Bad Unicorn

I loved it.  It was an easy, page turning read with characters I liked.  I didn’t have to think while I read it.  Entertaining, creative new story,and because:  unicorn.

Edited to add:

Fluff Dragon

The sequel to Bad Unicorn was just sent to me. September 20, 2015

Just reread:

The Black Stallion

I loved it.  It was actually read to me by a friend.  I love to have books read to me or read books to others.  Keeps you on the edge of your seat story, and because: Alex & the Black.

Edited to add:

Return of the Black Stallion was just sent to me.  September 19, 2015.

I love when someone shares the book they are reading, tells me why they find it engaging.

If you like to include conversation in your date, if you are here to share more than a spanking and want to spark that connection….

I don’t think anything attracts me more than the space between your ears inside your head, the brain….that sexy organ.

but how to begin?

Sometimes the simplest questions will release an avalanche.

1. Tell me about you.
2. What’s your story?
3. What personal passion project are you working on right now?
4. Working on anything exciting lately?
5. What was the highlight of your day today?
6. What was the highlight of your week?
7. What was the high-point and low-point of your day so far?

There is nothing wrong with asking me a question you really want to know the answer of.  Just be prepared, the answer may surprise you.

Some of my favorites that gentlemen ask me:

You have done a LOT of inter-racial porn.  Have you always liked black cock?  Is it better?

What did you grow up wanting to be?

Where have you traveled to lately, where do you want to go to next?

What are you reading now?

How do I prepare to chat with you?  I usually read the headlines of the local paper when I am traveling.  That way I have something current to chat on and segue into something about your clothes or a book you are carrying.

Again, a session made weeks before, a confirmation call made the day before.  I am mentally prepared to serve, my room is ready, and I am dressed as requested. And a gentlemen who has been vouched for doesn’t call to say something came up, an emergency happened, nothing.  Just No Call, No Show.  At six minutes into the hour I call the number he called me on to confirm his appointment to ask if he is close by?  stuck in traffic?  but sadly, no answer and it goes to voice mail. I have decided to be more diligent in requiring deposits from new clients due this and requesting my cut fee when return clients let me down.

Why I feel the deposit is a good thing for prospective partners I make appointments to play with and me:

The deposit is not…

* a get-quick-rich scheme.

* a horrible attempt at financial domination.

* drug money.

* rent.

* new toy expenses.

* fun money.

The deposit is…

* a reservation fee that secures your first session in my busy schedule.

* compensation for my time and expertise in developing, planning, and prepping for a session based on your interests and phone conversation.

* a way to ensure W/we both show up prepared.

*  a statement of you ready to enjoy your diabolical torture of me, and I:  clean, suited up, and ready with a clear vision of how to properly serve you.

With a deposit…

* I feel compensated for my time and skills.

* you ensure I have given proper thought and am well-prepared for your session.

* and if I am renting a space, the dungeon knows I am reliable when scheduling.

Without a deposit…

* I am inconvenienced.

* you are inconvenienced.

* and if I am renting a space, the dungeon is inconvenienced.

Unlike your hairdresser or dentist, I do not sit in the dungeon 9-5, latex-clad, ready to pounce at any given gentleman at any given time. I am an independent provider, which means I do not have the luxury of taking another gentleman in lieu of you (because I turned down all other offers when I accepted your appointment). When I talk to a perspective client on the phone, I am working; taking notes, making connections, asking questions, coming up with ideas, and hopefully at the end, scheduling a session. I am customizing our time together. your nominal deposit is part of your total tribute and therefore should be considered part of the session as it is arguably the most crucial part – preparation and planning. Be suspicious if a Domme or submissive you are seeing for the first time is more eager than you about meeting. While same day appointments can be spontaneous and fun, sometimes they are a product of poor planning and quick-buck-making. Tell your cock to try to be a little judicious when hard.  Sometimes you may catch me at just the right moment, I was web camming and all prepared to spend hours online, and instead I shall log off and see you in person.  More likely, I am in the middle of paperwork, working out or a nail appointment to look good for my other scheduled appointments.  I cannot just jump up and serve you without notice.

And a note on cancellations: When you cancel a day in advance with or without a deposit, same day or just straight up don’t show up and do not bother to text/email/call, my day gets all messed up. I arranged my schedule to accommodate you,  I listened to what you had to say and decided to accept a session with you.  You also, most likely at this stage, have taken up significant time in a shared calendar with other Dommes/submissives/switches who are vying for time. When you cancel, that time slot is now forever lost in the abyss that is shitty last minute cancelations never to be seen again by the light of day. Beyond that, and as you now know, there was other grunt work involved prior to the rodeo: driving to and from the dungeon, cleaning and prepping the dungeon, etc. And no, there is still no technology that makes us instantly beautiful (yet), so YES, there’s that too. With no deposit, and sometimes the added bonus of a last minute no-show, it turns into one enormous invested time suck and continues to be for the rest of the day. In short, it sucks, horribly… and makes me sad.  Paying your cut-fee via submissann at gmail dot com using PayPal will let me know you are disappointed also, you really did have an emergency, you really would rather be putting me through my paces and cannot wait to have another opportunity to do that.

In conclusion:  The deposit is my proper compensation for my time and skills. It lets me know that you are interested in a session beyond wanking off on the phone once and forgetting about it or canceling the day of. The dungeon can also put more faith in each session I book if they know I require one. For you, the Gentleman, it reassures you that I will show up and be the best submissive I can be because I have been respected and compensated for my skills and time. There is a mutual respect created when a deposit is procured. The time and energy that goes into the preliminary session process is not to be scoffed at! Respect me and yourself by providing a deposit – it is an investment in my happiness and ultimately, in yours as well. I will be awaiting to serve you, knowing my limits will be respected, I need not be worried or have nervousness, I may relax, listen intently and obey, throwing my whole self into serving you – obeying your commands.

I am always changing my Toy Bag. Subtle changes.

There is a weight limit on my Toy Bag of 50 lbs. If I put something new in, something has to come out.

Currently there aren’t any glass dildos. There is only the Lelo silicone rechargeable vaginal toy, the Hitachi Magic Wand, and vibrating gloves in the pink isle.

In the Anal isle, the Tristan, Bendy Beads, Tristan 2 with bullet (**NEW TOY**), Inflatable and The Monster Orange Vibrator.

Strap On with 2 sizes of dildos is still “in”.

I am traveling with my **NEW** Clover Clamp Nipple Tree. Fun.

What is also **NEW** is I am traveling with my ET 232 Portable Tens Unit, with (metal) anal and (silicaone) vaginal dildo attachments, toe or penis loops and body pads. You have to ask for it. You won’t see it out on the bed. If you need to know how to use it, ask. I will be happy to explain it and explain my limits with it. Think of it as a toy that can give pain, pretty much pain and no marks. The Tens Unit can also be erotic. It depends how you use it and where you place the pads or dildos.

I have a **NEW** nylon hood. I’m not great with hoods, this is a beginner hood, and…..I like it. I like wearing it.

Have fun.

Be safe.

From: {Insert a Made Up handle name here}

Did you really misspell Pacino and misspell Gigolo? You did. You really did. I mean what the fuck… seriously Pachino instead of Pacino and Gigalo instead of Gigolo??

Dear Sir,

Thank GOD you were assigned to be part of the Spell Check Police.

Robin Pachino spelled THAT way is how I have always spelled it. It is a made up name, my porn name and I can spell it however I wish. When you make up things one is allowed the creative license to do that. Al has never been upset with me and Robin Williams never noticed.

The Eros company has some words that they do not allow on their advertisements. I had to stop using my favorite flick “Real MILF’s of the OC” because the ad won’t publish with the word MILF on it anymore. It would not publish with the word “gigolo” on it either. The show “Gigolo’s” is therefore blocked also. You, however, and I are the only people in the world that have seemed to notice. Eros hasn’t and it is close enough that you know which show I am talking about.

Sometimes one has to go with what works.

Thank you for caring and wanting me to do things correctly. That is sweet. Have a good day.

Sincerely,

~Ann

No Photos nor Video were allowed at this event.

So much energy between the Ponies, Pups and audience. It was electrifying! Unforgettable! Such JOY and FUN shared by all.

There were 7 Ponies (Ginger, Speckles, Ebony Midnight, Phantom, Sunshine, Feargra, Rowena the Wonder Pony), one Zebra (Evolving ZeBra) and one Rapicorn (Lil Red) that competed in the races and jumps. There were 3 Pups (Eve, Demos, Puppeh Dawg) in the Greyhound Race.

If you missed Nina Hartley in a creme colored mesh catsuit by Winter Fetish as our sexy bunny running with the “bondage-bunny-on-a-stick” for our Pups to chase, you missed an incredible treat. just saying.

There were so many Ponies, we had two heats and then the top four time placements of those races, raced for The Queen’s Cup.

Queen’s Cup Derby Race

1st Place        Speckles
2nd Place      Pony Sunshine
3rd Place       Ebony Midnight

High Jump

1st Place        Speckles
2nd Place      Ebony Midnight
3rd Place       Evolving ZeBra

Hunter/Jumper

1st Place        Speckles
2nd Place      Ebony Midnight
3rd Place       Rowena the Wonder Pony

Greyhound Race

1st Place       Puppeh Dawg
2nd Place     Eve
3rd Place      Demos

Cart Race

1st Place       Sunshine
2nd Place     Rowena the Wonder Pony
3rd Place      Ebony  Midnight

 
Thank you to the Ponies and Pups for entertaining us. Bravo. Amazing. Wowie. An Unforgettable Experience!

It was an absolutely electrifying night with non-stop, heart-in-your-throat action and great fun had by all.

Two brand new ponies came out and strutted their stuff to the delight and awe of everyone.

The intrepid puppies were ferocious in their determination and showed huge heart whilst Nina Hartley was race bunny extraordinaire.

Volunteer cart jockeys experienced thrilling races as they tried something new and were wonderfully supportive of their cart ponies post-race.

All of the ponies showed impressive grace and beauty as they leapt over obstacles and dashed down the home-stretch.

Never has their been a more thrilling night of puppy and pony racing and, with this year’s impressive showing of participants, each progressive race promises to be just as exciting and entertaining!

Yes, this is a thing.

Being a resume, it should be only one or two pages. It would have a legal name, location, favorite photo. A resume is a brief summary of you, a snapshot of you, listing services you thrive in, S/M experiences, interests, desires, hobbies, something you’d like to try or learn. The idea being that you are sharing a brief summary of yourself so that you can find someone compatible with you for a lifestyle relationship.  If you are seeking a slave, you might want to ask for a resume.  You want to look at compatibility in a foundation, in basics that match.  A resume is not  an exhaustive list of skills, likes, capabilities and desires, it’s not meant to be.  It does start a conversation with being clear what you want and what you have to bring to the table.

Bullet points or Outline categories to include:

Objective

What is your objective? What are you looking for?

Example:

I require a Master/Daddy who desires to own and fully possess a dedicated, determined, and affectionate slave/baby-girl.

Next:

What real qualifications do you have as a slave-girl?

Qualifications

Domestic Services:

Example:

I am a service-oriented slave/baby-girl with a healthy appreciation for a well-kept home that reflects the attributes of love, peace, and joy. I am meticulous in my housekeeping duties, my favorites being vacuuming, laundry service, and organizing closet spaces and drawers. I am familiar with using a sewing machine; I can repair minor damage to clothes and also create simple curtains, table clothes, napkins, and other decorative items. One of my greatest joys in domestic service is cooking solid meals and on occasion, baking sweet treats. I specialize in creating healthy all natural meals that are pleasing to the palette and nourishing to the body. Special diet meals I am capable of preparing are low sodium, gluten free, and raw. Additional skills include silver, brass, and leather care.

Personal Attendance:

Example:

I am enthusiastic about providing personal assistant duties such as making travel arrangements; setting appointments; performing research; proofreading; and scheduling for both business and personal purposes. Personal grooming skills include clothing care and maintenance; dressing; manicure; pedicure; bathing and also relaxation massage.

Professional Skills:

What is your college degree in? What do you do for work?

BDSM & Fetish Experience:

Keep this short and in general.

Example:

I have extensive experience with impact play such as flogging, caning, body punching, and crops. I have a keen interest in bondage and experience with rope, belts, sacks, gear in it.

Health & Limits: (be honest, if you have std’s or HIV say so)

Skills, Hobbies, & Interests:

Cooking:
Maintenance:
Home –
Automotive –
Physical Activity:
Music:
Culture:

and what would subMissAnn’s resume look like?

First off, you would be mistaken in thinking I want to be an owned slave.  There are people who do want this, I am not one of them.  I am not a baby-girl type person.  I am a woman. I enjoy submitting for a specific amount of time, living my life fully, making decisions and goals for myself and having a positive, supportive relationship that is equality based.  Currently, I am not looking for a relationship.

In small amounts of time, be it an hour, a few hours, a weekend, one week, I strive to be the best possible submissive, mastering my submission and having that time be about you.  This, I truly love and it fulfills me.

so, thank you, I appreciate the opportunity to serve you.

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